Much of who we are by age 35 is thought to be a set of memorized patterns — automatic thoughts, feelings, and behaviors running below the surface. The first step to changing your experience is to become aware of the patterns already running. What you track, you can change. What you change, you reshape — from the inside out.
"What operates without your awareness is still operating — shaping your choices, your reactions, your life. The deep does not wait for permission. Bring it into the light. That is the work."
"The story you tell about yourself becomes the map through which your life moves. The inner language — the one you use when no one is listening — is always creating the outer one."
"The inner world precedes the outer one. Every circumstance you find yourself in was first a pattern in the deep. Change the pattern, and you change what the field receives."